There are very few things I am absolutely opinionated about to the point where I will argue my point to the death. I am obviously opinionated about many things, but I am mature enough to accept other peoples point of view and value their opinion as much as my own. Except for this one subject........DOGS!
To be more specific, dogs that have been found to be vicious. I will never own any of these three breeds; pit bulls, rottweilers, or dobermans. I understand that not every single one of these dogs is going to kill someone or even hurt someone, but for me the risk is just not worth it. I can not be that irresponsible with my children. Why am I getting up on my high horse today? Because I walked outside this morning and noticed my new neighbors have a brand new puppy. I knew it was a pit bull, I can spot one from a mile away. So can my children, adult ones that is. Puppies they can't tell, so they were asking what kind it was. I say to my neighbor (I am sure I had a very uneasy and a look of disdain on my face, you can read me like a book by looking at my face.) "It's a pit bull, right?" I know I had a tone, I tend to do that when I am not in the best of moods. "Yes" she replied. "Great, just great!" I replied back. And she started in with "we can have him adjust to the kids now" and "he's not bad at all." Yeah lady you will never convince me of that. 1) My kids will NEVER go near a pit bull. 2) My dad is an EMT and has run way too many kids whose face, arm, finger, etc has been ripped off by "Rex" the loving family pit bull who was raised from a puppy with the child. 3) Yeah, he's "not bad"......YET.
No they don't have children and it's their right to own whatever vicious creature they wish, within the rules of our housing contract. So I can't do a damn thing about the dog living next door to me. I even called housing to make sure it wasn't against the rules to own them on post. Unfortunately they have a policy that only bans creatures that have already maimed children, pets, or adults. Now I will just take comfort in the fact that we should be moving very soon to Senior Enlisted housing and away from all this mess. I know I either hurt her feelings or angered her, I really don't care. My number one job is to take care of my children and I am pretty sure letting them get bit or eaten by a dog would constitute a failure on my part.
Now pit pulls are the worst in my opinion. I don't care for rots because they have a rep, but I am not as vigilant about them. Dobies are another story, I was nearly attacked by my uncles as a child. It chased me down the hall and I had to stand on the back of the couch to get away from her until my uncle could grab her. It wasn't long after that she attacked my 4 year old cousin and they had her put down. Now my cousin (the brother of the one attacked) owns 2 dobies. The male is nice enough and seems to be harmless. The female however is a viscous beast that almost bit Aidan on the face. His fiancee has already warned him they will go when they have children, smart girl in my opinion. My aunt still doesn't think they are a threat, but in her own admission Aidan was doing nothing but trying to pet the dog when she tried to bite her. My dad has already warned my aunt the children are to NEVER go around those dogs again. He is even more passionate about this subject that I am. But most people would probably be that same way if they have seen what he has in his 20+ years of being an EMT.
My motto is "I don't trust a big dog with no tail."
Anyone is welcome to disagree with me, but they will never change my mind. If you own one, fine by me, my children will just never be around it. I am opinionated about this, but I still respect other peoples rights to own these dogs. I just personally choose not to put my family at risk. I will climb down off my high horse or step down off my soap box, whichever you prefer. :P
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I'm with you all the way. my brother has a pitbull... and although they try to tell me all the time that she is harmless I just don't even trust her at all... I can't she doesn't even look or act friendly why would I take that chance. I don't and won't take my kids there, even when she is put away some where like her pen or whatever... there is always a risk of her getting free and getting my children. i am also fearful of dobies and rotties. we had a rottie, he came with bryan when we got together and he was MASSIVE... beyond HUGE! he frightened the shit out fo me... i guess he was alright but i never got close enough to really know i kept my distance and he lived outside when we moved in together. he died before I was pregnant with Trevor.
we now have a tailess dog... but I swear she is a really good girl.. she is a boxer... and they are listed as one of the top family dogs. so far no problems, but if one every came up... she would be GONE!!
I agree with you though. and no one is changing my mind either... well except for the no tail thing. lol
xoxoxo
Jenn,
Boxers are okay in my book. But I still get nervous around dogs w/o tails, how the heck do you know when they are happy? :P
I agree with you. Especially scary is when you see a Pit bull at a park or something and their owner is barely able hold them back from just wanting to walk ahead of them. Now what if this same dog was trying to attack? What owner is going to hold it back?
My brother has two Mastiffs. Nice dogs, I visit him about once a year and they are in a locked part of the yard, but you ain't going to catch me going out in there area or near it, they are big and I know as big as I am they could bring me down and rip me to smithereens!
BTW I found your blog thru Memarie Lane
Dee,
Welcome. I know exactly what you mean. I can't stand it when I see the guy down the street being "walked" by his pit bull. If he wants too that dog can break free and maul us to death.
My parents neighbors also have a pit bull, which is bizarre because they live in a very nice, family friendly neighborhood. But the house next to them is a rental, so anyone can live there. One day I was running in to pick one of the teens up and the damn thing busted out the screen and was on their front porch. Oh I was so scared. I told Lele to get in the car carefully but quickly. Then I called animal control. They don't leave him in the house anymore with the windows open.
I totally agree with you, but I think you should broaden your spectrum about what constitutes a vicious dog. I was mauled by a chow-chow several years ago, and apparently they do that a lot. They only bond with one person, and will randomly attack other people. This dog knew me, and I didn't provoke it. It just flew at me one day out of the blue. Also most of the little dogs are pretty bad, you just don't hear about it because they can't do much damage.
Marie,
Good point, I knew that too but forgot until you mentioned it. You just don't hear as many chow chow stories, but they can be just as vicious. Also cocker spaniels, but they are smaller so no one says much about them. But both my brother and Kale's sister were bitten by cockers when they were little.
We just keep Emma away from all strange dogs just to make sure. Which is hard because she LOVES dogs and wants to pet each and every one.
Fortunately, some people are very honest when they see she wants to pet their dog. We've had several people tell us their dog isn't good around kids or doesn't like to be petted around strangers. I appreciate that.
In general I don't trust small dogs. Big fluffy dogs are the best.
Jacki,
I am lucky that since we have a dog my kids are not curious about strange dogs. Cats are another story, we have one but they still love all cats.
I am not even close to being a dog lover. I can take small dogs for a little while but I have no desire to pet a pit bull, not even a friendly one. They scare the $*@ out of me.
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